Like all Californians, you have had to adjust to a new way of life in recent months. To comply with Governor Newsom’s lockdown order, you are probably spending a great deal of time in your home with your spouse. Even if your marriage was not already rocky, the...
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How long does it take to get a divorce?
This is a common question that divorcing spouses have. Once they decide to pursue a divorce, some people want to get it over with as soon as possible. After all, divorce is a stressful life event. It is only natural to feel that way. So, how long does a divorce...
Posting online about your divorce is not a good idea — but usually is not illegal
One of the first things we advise our divorce clients to do is to avoid discussing their case on social media. If you are feeling frustrated, frightened or angry at your ex, it is tempting in the moment to log onto Facebook, Twitter or Instagram to let everyone know...
Making the divorce transition easier for your children
If you think divorce is hard on you, imagine what it is like for your children. They will no longer be sharing a home with the two people who have cared and provided for them their entire lives. The most important part of a divorce is seeing to the needs of your...
Trusts blocking wife from assets in her divorce
The end of a marriage requires couples to divide their property, but the divorce drama of one wealthy couple now centers around a secretive trust allegedly used to block a spouse from assets. The wife of a man who earned billions as the founder of a high-speed trading...
What to do financially throughout the divorce process
California residents whose marriages are ending need to take steps before, during and after the divorce to protect themselves financially. It is important to organize financial records, including making a list of all individual and shared assets. Some people might...
3 Self-improvement steps to consider throughout divorce
Many people consider their wedding day one of the happiest of their lives, at least in the short-term. Marriage is a winding road of twists, turns, ups, and downs. You'll climb mountains of success with your spouse and fall into pits of adversity from time to time....
Why Mediation and Collaborative Divorce are the best options right now
The courts in California have been closed now for several weeks and are only beginning to reopen. If you have a case currently waiting to be reset for a hearing or trial, it could take a long time. With the courts moving toward Zoom meetings and conference calls there...
Is money really a common reason for divorce?
Financial decisions can be very stressful on a marriage. Spouses commonly disagree about money and it can lead them to consider a divorce. Once you have reached the conclusion that divorce is the next step, you will likely consider what process for divorce will save...
Tips: How to manage the stress of a divorce
Even if spouses decide to end their marriage, they both still face considerable uncertainty – and even grief. After all, getting a divorce can change both spouses’ lives and everything they have grown accustomed to over the years. All of this change can make this an...
