Divorce litigation can be a cathartic experience. Spouses have the opportunity to explore the relationship in-depth and possibly receive the vindication of a judge agreeing with their version of events. However, divorce litigation can also be messy, frustrating and...
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Mediation And Collaborative Divorce
Could divorce actually be good for both you and your spouse?
People often think of divorce as one person asking for a divorce and the other person feeling like their life is being ruined. When they get to court, they expect everything to be a battle. But does it have to be that way? It absolutely does not, and divorce can...
Your divorce doesn’t have to be like your parents’ divorce
When your parents got divorced when you were a child, it was not a pleasant experience for anyone involved. You might remember a lot of arguing, crying and debating. Your parents could barely stand to be in the same room together. As a child, it was all very...
Mediation teamwork helps to create an effective parenting plan
If you and your spouse have decided to end your marriage, the concerns of raising your children in a post-divorce world will be top of mind. During mediation, the two of you can work together to create an effective parenting plan that focuses on the best interests of...
Should you stay friends with your ex-spouse?
Breaking up is hard to do under any circumstances. However, when it means getting a divorce, the process can be particularly gut-wrenching. Does it help or hurt to stay friends with your ex-spouse after the break-up? There’s no easy answer to that question, but there...
What is a no-fault divorce?
Until relatively recently, divorces in many U.S. jurisdictions needed fault. In other words, you would have had to prove that there was some kind of reason you wanted a divorce in most cases. Most contemporary divorces do not use any type of specific problem as their...
How does a mediated divorce work?
If you and your spouse contemplate divorce, you may wish to consider mediation as an alternative to a litigated divorce. FindLaw explains that mediation not only allows the two of you to maintain control of your lives, but also usually costs far less and takes less...
Can we still be a family after divorce?
Too often, people expect a divorce to completely sever whatever ties that exist between two people. However, this does not always happen -- especially when two people have a child. While some people begrudgingly accept the fact that they continue to be linked through...
How to help your child finish the school year
There is no easy time of year to divorce. However, there are times that present different challenges. For instance, if you are currently going through a divorce, you may want to be cognizant of how it could affect your children as they approach the last part of the...
Collaborative divorce: Truly a respectful event
Parties who wish to avoid the animosity, expense and divisiveness of a courtroom divorce can choose instead to divorce through more cooperative efforts. In California and other states, one option for doing this is to commit to a collaborative divorce. As part of the...