For a man, winning the heart of a woman requires a certain sense of style, chivalry and charm. To win the hearts of her children, it arguably takes an entirely different set of skills, including kindness, resourcefulness and patience. Blended families are becoming...
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Child Custody
What custody evaluators may look for
If you are embroiled in a custody dispute with your soon-to-be ex-spouse or your ex-girlfriend or boyfriend, it could arguably be the most emotionally stressful experience of your life. Simply put, custody disputes are not fun, and the stress that parents (and kids)...
Parents: Prepare for back-to-school co-parenting challenges
Summer is winding down and that means it's almost time for the kids to go back to school. In fact, many schools have already started. This is often something parents look forward to, especially after months of trying to keep kids entertained and safe. However, if you...
Why planning for Christmas now is important
It might be out of context for people to plan for the holiday season in July or August. After all, at the height of the summer, people are more likely to shop for barbeques and lawn furniture than holiday wreaths and Christmas trees. But online retailer Amazon may be...
More courts recognizing ‘modern’ families
There's an old adage that says it takes a village to raise a child. It is based on an African proverb reminding parents that everyone who comes into a child's life, whether it is a grandparent, aunt, uncle or even a teacher can add something of value to enhance the...
How parents should deal with denied parenting time
While it feels like it is hotter than July this week, the actual Independence Day holiday will be here before we know it. For most people, it will be a four-day weekend, which can be a little tricky for divorced and separated parents. Dividing a holiday weekend can be...
Summer break custody schedule should be part of parenting plan
Your kids are already probably counting down the days until they are done with school for the year. We all remember how exciting it was when summer break finally arrived. As adults, summer break presents different emotions. And for divorced parents, summer vacation...
How will my kids’ futures be decided in our California divorce?
How will my kids' futures be decided in our California divorce? It is probably the number one question on your mind. You want to make sure they are okay. You want to try to protect them from life getting worse just because you and your spouse no longer can remain in...
Co-Parenting pt. 2
When a relationship involving children ends (by divorce, separation, whether with or without marriage), co-parenting becomes an issue. When the child custody process is behind you and the various arrangements have been finalized, surprise, the other parent still...
Co-Parenting pt. 1
When a relationship involving children ends (by divorce, separation, whether with or without marriage), co-parenting becomes an issue. We don't doubt that you have learned by now that life is complicated. Take a relationship on its own, for example. Enjoying the...
