Just about every parent knows that as soon as it seems like you've figured out co-parenting, something changes. As such, it is important to revisit your child support and custody orders from time to time if you share custody of your child. In some cases, and in light...
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Child Custody
What are the ‘best interests of a child’?
When parents divorce or split up, determining how they will co-parent is often their highest priority. If they cannot come to an agreement on their own, then the courts will have to make custody-related decisions. Under these circumstances, the courts will decide on...
Tips for stepping up to the plate as a stepparent
Transitioning into the role of a stepparent can be like jumping head first into an ocean of the unknown. You are sure to encounter many challenges as you and your spouse work together to co-parent your children under the same roof. While there is no “right” way to...
Parents should avoid pressuring their children during divorce
We often discuss the emotional toll that a divorce may take on a couple, but we may not emphasize enough the impact a split may have on children. After all, few kids want their parents to break up or endure continued turmoil. In fact, they would rather have mommy and...
When parents disagree, who gets the final say?
We are several days into the New Year now. For children, the holiday season is well in the past. Their minds are focused on the future. Many students already have ideas about warmer weather and fun plans for spring break. If you have teenagers of the driving age, they...
New year. New resolutions. New custody/visitation arrangement?
The beginning of a new year is upon us. It is a time for reflection and review, in which many people stop to think about what is or, more accurately, what isn't working in their lives. Then, they make a promise to change it. New Year's resolutions focus on important...
3 easy steps to stay connected when you travel for work
In the fast-paced, global world we live in today, many jobs require that you travel to another city, state or even country. Sales consultants, pilots, recruiters, archaeologists, geologists, travel writers, reporters, auditors, photographers... the list is endless. As...
Why is she threatening to keep the kids away during Christmas?
If you didn't get a chance to spend time with your kids during Thanksgiving, you may be pretty upset about it. You may also wonder if the Christmas holidays will be any different. More importantly, you may wonder why your ex is being so evil and why she feels as if...
Anti-vax movement sparks debate over child’s best interests
Here's a complicated one for you: Is choosing not to vaccinate your child in their best interests? And no, we're not talking about parenting decisions like whether to let a child have ice cream after 8:00 p.m. We're talking about the court's definition of "child's...
Options for resolving parenting time disputes on Halloween
If you wonder why Halloween is likely a child's favorite day of the year (with Christmas being a close second), consider this: dressing up as someone (or something) else leads to people giving you candy. What kid would not want to take part in that? Depending on your...
