Summer is a time for fun, relaxation and creating memories. However, the season can bring unique challenges for parents navigating shared custody for the first time. Don’t worry; with a little planning, you can ensure a smooth and enjoyable summer for everyone.
Summer’s special custody concerns
Summer presents different challenges than the school year. Kids are out of school, schedules change, and vacation plans come into play. Here are some common issues:
- Scheduling conflicts: Camps, activities and vacations can make coordinating schedules tricky.
- Vacation plans: Deciding who goes where and when requires open communication and compromise.
- Childcare gaps: Summer may require more childcare coverage than during the school year.
- Out-of-state travel: If you plan to leave California with your child, you will need permission from the courts or the other parent in advance.
Thinking about these potential issues now will make your summer run smoother. Preparing now can save you stress.
Start preparing now for a smoother summer
Taking action early will help you avoid last-minute problems. Here’s what you can do right away:
- Put all summer plans on a shared calendar that both parents can access.
- Check that important documents like passports and medical forms are current.
- Talk with your co-parent about summer camps before enrolling children.
- Discuss vacation plans early, including dates and destinations.
- Put agreements in writing, even informal ones.
- Consider your children’s social needs when making summer plans.
- Review your custody agreement for specific summer provisions.
Most California custody agreements have special sections about summer. Make sure you understand yours. If your agreement doesn’t address summer specifically, now is a good time to discuss modifications.
Make this summer work for everyone
Children benefit when parents work together. By planning ahead and keeping communication open, you can create positive summer memories despite the changes in your family.
If major disagreements come up about summer plans, consider working with a mediator before going back to court.
With thoughtful preparation, you can help your children enjoy their summer while respecting both parents’ rights. Your first summer sharing custody may have challenges, but it can also set a positive pattern for many summers to come.
Co-parenting can be a rewarding experience when both parents work together to create a positive and supportive environment for their child. By prioritizing your child’s needs, and communicating efficiently, you can have a great summer together. At Bartholomew & Wasznicky LLP, we are here to support you every step of the way.
Do you have more questions about the divorce process, custody, or your current situation? Call us today at 916-603-2913 or submit the contact form with more information.